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What’s Love & Commitment?

Is Love Forever?  Is Commitment Forever? What is love?  What is Commitment?  What is forever?   More often than not, we ASSUME our relationships are forever and that commitment too is forever.  Commitment is about making an agreement with a time component and details about what you are agreeing to… Furthermore, agreements do change and can be renegotiated or even exited.  We collapse the words love, Continue Reading

Expressing Love

Expressing Love can be Simple and Done in 15 Minutes Per Day Resulting in Unprecedented Amounts of Love, Respect, and Support in Return But FIRST YOU MUST GIVE GENEROUSLY, CONSISTENTLY, and DAILY By Expressing Love These 8 things for expressing love, done with discipline daily, will result in the success of your relationship over the long term.  Many couples I work with to save their relationship Continue Reading

Healthy Marriage Audit

Could you imagine asking your wife to conduct an audit on your marriage based on marital advice you received from a study conducted by a Ph.D.? Them are fighting words, right! Is Eli J Finkel, a psychology professor from Northwestern University, Illinois, insane? In a recent study, he encourages couples to audit their arguments, regularly. I share my opinion on marriage audits in this interview:…be sure Continue Reading

Relationship Success Solution Helps Singles and Couples

Charlotte, NC  – It seems harder than ever for singles to find lasting love these days, and the staggering divorce rate shows that too many couples give up because they don’t have the right tools. A new methodology from relationship and dating expert Dr. Darshana Hawks called the Love Consciousness Elevator helps singles and couples better understand what’s really going in with their relationships, and begin to Continue Reading

Just Be Yourself Advice is Not Helpful

Just Be Yourself Advice is as Useful as Nipples on a Male Lately, I’ve been hearing the words ‘Just Be Yourself’ as helpful friends tell each other how to handle a date, or a difficult meeting, or some other scenario. How many times have you received a Facebook note of inspiration telling you to Be Yourself? I get at least one a day, okay, so I Continue Reading

Manti Teo Catfish

It Happened to Manti Teo – Catfish What is catfish? Why is Catfish a Big Deal? How do I maintain honesty when Online Dating? If it can happen to Manti Teo Catfish, it can happen to you. Catfishing occurs in the online dating world where someone poses as an alternate identity, not who they truly are. Story Created: Jan 18, 2013 at 9:07 AM EST CHARLOTTE, Continue Reading

I need some time for myself

Last week I was approached by a man and later in the week by a woman.  Both married, not to each other.  Both complaining that when they get home, they need some time to themselves to reintegrate back into the home after a busy day at work or with the children. Their spouses are usually waiting by the door, ready with a to do list or Continue Reading

Stop Arguing with Your Spouse

One important and simple way to stop arguing with your husband… Is to acknowledge him when he does something you ask him to do, whether it is done exactly the way you want it to be done OR NOT. Story Created: May 6, 2013 at 3:44 AM EDT CHARLOTTE, NC: You do what your spouse asks… and that’s still not the right thing! How can you Continue Reading

The Case for Relationship Coaching

We have developed a “need” to be happy and have a decreasing tolerance for delayed gratification.  When we are in an unhappy relationship most of us attempt to improve it and eventually leave if it doesn’t get better.  A generation or two ago, men and women dated, married, had families, and rarely divorced. Everyone seemed to know the rules and followed them. “Fulfillment” was not a Continue Reading