1. Know Who You Are and What You Want and Need. What you know about yourself is only the tip of the iceberg, and what lies below the surface is what you are not aware of – that is the information you need to discover in order to be fulfilled and happy.
        2. Learn How to Get What You Want.  Assess and acquire the information, tools, and skill you need to become more conscious.  Develop creative strategies and action plans.  When you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
        3. Be the “Chooser”. Take initiative and responsibility for your outcomes.  Do not react to what or who ‘Chooses’ you.  Create what you want in your life by taking accountability and being empowered.
        4. Balance Your Heart With Your Head.  Make your relationship choices consciously and wisely.  It is still exciting and is a great deal safer (with less emotional or financial costs)!
        5. Be Ready and Available for Commitment. Live your life and bring your dating strategy into alignment with how READY you really are for a committed relationship.
        6. Use the Law of Attraction.  Be the partner that you are looking for…live your life authentically and consciously.  Know that the more you express who you really are, the easier it is to attract a partner who loves you BECAUSE of who you are, instead of in spite of it…leading to a lifelong loving relationship.
        7. Gain Relationship Knowledge and Skills.  Prepare of the love of your life by learning about relationships, improving your relationship skills, and deepening your relationships with your family, friends, and colleagues. Date for fun and for practice. Take more emotional risks. Read about relationships, especially about those that align with what you want. Get relationship coaching.  Take relationship classes and workshops.
        8. Create a Support Community. Isolated singles become lonely in their relationships when they focus on a partner to meet ALL of their social and emotional needs.  Instead, build a social network that meets your needs.
        9. Practice Assertiveness. To get what you really want, you must say NO to what you do not want.
        10. Be a Successful Single. Do not put your life on hold waiting for a relationship to happen.  Live your life vision and purpose while you are single.  The best way to find and attract your life partner is to be a happy, successful single person living the life you really want!

        ***Contact Dr. Dar for information for more detailed guidance on these principles and how to apply them and recognize them in your life.  Dr. Dar is committed to Your Relationship Success and will teach you about Relationships are SIMPLE, When You Know How!

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